Infertility

Over the course of Aaron and my almost two year infertility journey we have received a lot of support, but have also felt quite misunderstood when expressing our grief. We wanted to point out and talk about some common statements from various situations of infertility that can be insensitive from our point of view. No one is perfect, and I am sure we have been insensitive to others at times, which we try not to be. But maybe by refraining from some of these statements we can show more sensitivity and compassion to those going through this trial. First off, infertility pain is REAL, it’s like a disease. Many of those who have not gone through it, do not see it that way.  “Infertility is a loss. It’s the loss of a dream. It’s the loss of an assumed future. And, like every loss, it will be grieved.” —-“it has only been two years, just be patient, don’t stress.”—- —-“be grateful for what life has given you”—- —-“you have beautiful children already”—- Yes, it has only been two ...